On (most) Friday nights, we gather together to welcome the Sabbath. We light the Shabbat candles, say our blessing over and drink the "wine" (flavored seltzer water, so we can all drink from the Kiddush cup!), and say our blessing over and eat our challah (sometimes crackers). We all have a role in bringing Shabbat together-Zachary puts the candles in the candle holders and the Kiddush cup on the Kiddush plate (the one Mitch and I used in our wedding), Mitch buys a delicious challah from a local bakery, and I bring the items to the table for Zachary to set up.
I think my favorite family story might be when we visited my uncle's cacao farm outside of Guayaquil, Ecuador this past October. Zachary was five months old. The whole tour was beautiful and educational; there was one part of the tour where we tasted the nearly raw cacao (think, the most intense, high percentage dark chocolate you have ever tasted).
We are each other's favorites
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If you are there for it, you will tap into an energy deep inside. You have everything your baby needs.
It might be how intensely connected the eye contact between me and my son can be. I don't know if surprising is the right word, but the clarity and unwavering focus his eyes meet mine with is unlike anything I have experienced before him. The trust is very naked.
Something really funny is, when my shoes or his toys or books are missing, they are likely to be in the hamper. Zachary loves organizing and putting things away, and he is figuring out the difference between a garbage/recycling pail and a general objects container. Sometimes, after he goes down for his morning nap and I clean up after morning playtime, I find myself sifting through the hamper and pulling out all these things.
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